Coming Out Story: Elena from Switzerland

 I love a good coming out story..



And love story <3



And break up story..

Can you relate to Elena's story? 

Comment below to share your thoughts..

Femme Gaydar! The Definitive Guide for Lesbians

Women are difficult to read. So just accept the idea that no one will ever know if that attractive woman you have had your eye on at work (you know, the one with the short fingernails) is actually a lesbian! And move on with your life! 

Okay, just kidding. I know you are still curious about her, so here are the Top 8 SURE Signs That She Is a Femme Lesbian (Maybe)

1. Her walk, play close attention. It's all in the walk.
2. She is very attractive and personable but doesn't have a boyfriend.
3. Short finger nails.
4. She doesn't check men out. She might flirt with them, but she won't check out their body when they walk away.
5. You will sometimes catch her checking out other women.
6. She played softball, basketball or soccer in school.
7. She uses the word "person" and not "he/him" when talking about a current or past relationship.
8. You get a vibe.

Advanced Technique (The L Word - Gay Test):

Another approach is to enlist the help of your friends. However be prepared for them to be super obvious about what they are up to. And to thoroughly embarrass you (this is unavoidable).

YOU WILL NEED..

To bring 4 friends: 1 to take notes. 2 to PDA in front of her. And get your most irresistible and obviously gay friend to hit on her. They should all take note of the following when they arrive.
-Her Walk
-Her Shoes
-Style of clothing and earrings (Note: hoops are hard to read)
-Her reaction to 2 hot lesbians making out at her workplace
-The way she wields her tool (i.e. chopping knife if she is a chef)
-The way she responds to being hit on by a lesbian

The L Word Gay Test

Do you have super gaydar. If so, how do you know for SURE when a woman is gay?

Are you a femme lesbian? Share your tells by commenting below..

Lesbian Chronicles: The Blog

Where It All Started

I came out later in life. I was 32 when I first stepped foot in a lesbian bar. I remember the apprehension I felt about just crossing the thresh hold. It was a bar called Henrietta Hudson's on Hudson St. and Morton St. in the West Village, in New York. It's the type of bar where older, more butch lesbians go. There are younger, more feminine lesbians that go there, but they aren't common.

I decided on Henrietta's after an online search for lesbian bars in NYC. They seemed to have the most awards, and also marketed themselves as being the premiere lesbian bar in the city. Truth is, they are 1 of only 2 full-time, lesbian bars in Manhattan. It's Cubby Hole and Hen's, and that's it! RF lounge (Real Friends Lounge, formerly Ruby Fruit closed down a few months ago, they were the other full-time lesbian bar in town).

That first time at Henrietta's I went with a guy named Frankie, they wouldn't let him in because he was straight. The door people said that there needed to be 2 women accompanying a man in order for him to get in. So I had to go in alone. I didn't stay long, was in and out in a few minutes. *Frankie was always trying to get it in (have sex) with me, but he never did.

Where It Is Now

The other notable lesbian parties in NY are held in other venues on various nights of the week (Eden on Wednesdays, Stilettos on Sundays etc..) Maggie Collier runs these parties. She seems really cool.. and is absolutely stunning! You can find me @ Stilettos sometimes getting it down on the dance floor. Especially when DJ Brynn is on the turntables!

Queen Latifah’s girlie night out at lesbian bash

New York, August 8 : Queen Latifah was spotted letting her hair down with five women at a lesbian bash.

The actress was seen at Country Club''s weekly Wednesday night party, "Eden," on West 14th Street.

"She chilled for several hours, ordering bottle service for her friends and chatting up promoter Maggie Collier," the New York post quoted a spy as saying.

The rapper, who has continued to let her sexuality remain a mystery, was again spotted this week. (ANI)

Where Have You Been?

"Where have you been
Cause I never see you out
Are you hiding from me, yeah?
Somewhere in the crowd"
-Rihanna (from the song Where Have You Been)  


I have made some great friends which I am very grateful for! They are just great women and I love them all. However, in terms of finding love, well, that's a whole other story "/

Right now I feel quite pessimistic about finding love, I'm not going to lie. The bar scene is just not my cup of tea. I feel like I just don't jive well with  people that I meet in bars. And as I'm getting older (I will be 40 years young on November 21st 2012), I find that I have less and less in common with people much younger than me.

My friends tell me that I'm too picky. I'm not going to hold you, I am a little. However, I have deal breakers like anyone else. And while I have women that are very attractive and successful who would like to date me, I just can't let go of my so called "high standards".

And what are these unrealistic expectations? Let's see there's: fidelity, sobriety & emotional stability..

Getting Back To The Point

The Blog. So here goes: This blog will be about Lesbian relationships, culture, and humor. So Lez Do It!!!

And I will be honest, I hope that Ms. Right is reading this.. Call Mee ;*